When Opposites No Longer Attract by Michael Testa

Michael Testa wrote a book filled with compelling true stories of people trapped in not only a relationship that no longer fits, but also trapped in their own discovery of authenticity. Thank you Mike for sharing these stories including yours. I have more courage now and have been inspired to really think about my life. It has helped me firstly to examine myself and where do I want to be and secondly realize I am not alone. This book and these stories are so important especially to thoses who have been in these complex situations! Excellent read! - Arlyn Owens He married and lived a sad life until he took his own life in 92. My father was a gay man in a time where being out was not an option. I commend him on a job well done! - diane little He also did a very excellent job in conveying his and the others he interviewed experiences that occurred in their struggle with making the right choice for their life and family. Michael gave his readers access on where to find information on any thoughts or questions they may be having. I thought this book was very informative. He also did a very excellent job in conveying his and the others he interviewed.If you're married and questioning your sexual orientation, I highly recommend reading this book. The testimonials from the people who've experienced this very much rang true, and there was a good deal of thoughtful advice given for those in mixed-orientation marriages. Interesting insights and perspectives, even if it's not about youĪs someone who's recently been through this process, I really appreciated this book.Mike has a great way of sharing the stories of others. I personally know the author and as a once married gay man I wish this book was around prior to my coming out. Mike has a great way of sharing the stories of others Thank you for giving voice to a subject many people are not aware exists. Great job and wish you much happiness, Mr. Would love a sequel knowing how those in the stories are doing. Knowing others were dealing with the same issues (kids, coming out at work, being single again) and were willing to talk about it, would have been helpful.

Any break up is hard - gay, straight, married or not. Following their hearts and heads authentically was the right thing to do, but they felt badly that they were unintentionally hurting others and breaking up their families. As my friends made the transition from straight relationships to being openly gay, even with supportive friends and family, it was a lonely road. I love this book! As a straight person with 3 gay friends who found themselves in exactly the situation addressed by the book, I found the stories included covered what it is like to be gay in a straight relationship fairly and honestly.

When Opposites No Longer Attract by Michael Testa